An email to warn, notify

People send out emails to warn, notify

how many people really care to read,

or maybe to share it after reading?

I just received a email with the title

尤其是SETAPAK/WANGSA MAJU的女性，请留意这位男生...(將這封信傳給每個你認識的女性‏)

If u can't understand, let me translate it.

"Especially for girls in Setapak, please be cautious of this guy.

please forward to every girls that you know."

How manay people will forward it,

or even read it...?

I read it, but i don't think i'll forward it.

I think that its better to blog it. LOL

kidding. I just want to talk about it a bit.

In that email,

i believe that its a victim or a friend of the victim who sent it,

and he/she is a chinese.

Because the way he/she translate it to english.

or the way he/she compose in english.

I kind of pity this pregnant girl or these ladies

but not at all though.

I'm a girl too, not yet a woman.

so, its not that i'm at the guy side point of view. lol.

it mentioned that "this guy treated his girlfriends badly.

he never care for his girlfriend's feeling. He always hit

on other girl while he's in a relationship with girl A/ girl B.

He changes his girl friends all the time.

He even made a girl pregnant and move out.

He basically never thought of taking responsible,

and (i wonder did he) kinda make the girl to have abortion.

what a shitty guy, damn guy, cheap guy"

Okay, this is what i want to say.

1. firstly, it is important that you should be able to

know his personality, characteristic. and if you find that he's

no good as a partner, u know what should be done, must be done.

(please, which mean u need to have thoughts,

able to think. *and of course i wonder

how old are those victims. can't they think....?)

2. secondly, romance is not everything in a relationship and love. lol.

at least i don't think its everything.

and i believe that logic is important too.

sometimes, we must think before we act.

(honestly, i never fall in love, i believe i haven't,

that's why i'm able to talk like... oh please, be logical.

many told me that love can't be logical.

*ish, i've no idea, i prefer crystal clear mind

in making relationship and making decision,

especially my life decision. =3)

1 of the reasons why i said we must be logical,

and think... please refer to point 1 again...

what should be done, must be done.

do the right thing.

think, if its inappropriate,

then, u should not and must not go for it~

think, if its not the time yet,

think, if u ever wonder,

think, of the consequences,

if u can let urself to think for moment,

you might have put the moment behind already.

i believe by the time u finish thinking,

you might already have a clear mind,

and know what to do, and please, do it for your own sake.

again, logical, and think.

(in that email, it mentioned, "really no heart, no brain"

if u ever ask me, *might be offensive, but i apologize here*

i'll have to say that "no heart, no brain"

sounded more suitable to apply on the girl.

3. lastly, sorry to say so,

"girl, u make it happened! didn't u...?!"

and believe that the one who sent out that email

felt that the girl is a real idiot,

as mentioned in the mail,

however he/she still decided to helps her to notify the community.

what can i say......?

willingly, u invited and accepted the deal,

so... hey hey... didn't u have fun during the deal...?

or the agreement didn't actually mentioned that

a baby will actually followed by the deal of the fun...?

should it be an abortion....?

again... think...

if yes, abortion it is.

if no, do the right thing,

what should be done, must be done,

what shouldn't be done, mustn't be done.

i feel sorry... i did...

play safe. or no regret.

I'm not saying i support or totally disagree to the idea of abortion.

but yes, it gross and....

i personally think that it is not the right move,

but if it is the move, the move is it. lol.

see... i'm not supporting, but i'm not disagree-ing too. lol.

so... haha. i'm a busybody,

busybody signing off.

community made me a monster