ASIAN and SEX? WHY NOT?!

No sex please, we're Asian

(MALAYSIAKINI 2010)

Really??
NO SEX?
My 2 cent, I disagree on the summarize statement by NST too,
that "not teaching kids about sex early enough is the reason
for the problems with teenage pregnancies
and other related problems."
However, NO SEX please, we're ASIAN.....?!

Early sex education don't really play a role in this matter,
lets say family plays a more important role.
WHY?
honestly, i'd never pay much attention in class
while i'm in primary and secondary school time.
SO how on earth i got educated on sex??

I grew up in a very open minded, 90% freedom given family.
I'm allow to do and involve in many things and activities that
older generation might not agree to.
At my young age, I get to watch any movie, drama
shoot by anyone, any country.
I'm allow to listen to any songs,
Surf any Internet page,
Chat with any people that I don't know on ICQ, MSN
Hanging out with friends until late night,
Lepak-ing around Mamak,
or even clubbing and night life,
It is all allowed.
I can read any books,
and articles that I want,
even share and discuss it with the family during after meal chit chat.
I'm even allowed to watch porn!
(don't believe that?! my family and i watch together gether lo.)
I got all the influences from the western culture,
such as, TATOO piercing, Body piercing, hair dying, etc.
(My mother even paid for my TATOO!
A white lady asked my mother "WHY are you paying for her tatoo??!!")
Try guess what my mother said.
.............

I don't see what's wrong with the western culture,
my parents both think that i'm too westernize,
BUT, they always agree to me when I reason on some issues.
I became even more mature in thoughts and mind than many other people.
I truly believe that without these influences,
I wouldn't be me.

Because of the culture, I'm more daring, sporting.
My parents seldom worry for me when I'm outside,
outstation, oversea,
BECAUSE I'M RELIABLE AND MATURE ENOUGH TO THINK FOR MYSELF.

the words that i just highlighted is the root to teenage pregnancies.
I believe so.
SELF DISCIPLINE form your RELIABILITY, GAIN the TRUST.
The way you speak, present, portray your MATURITY.
YOU DO NOT do what others ask you to do,
YOU DO what you think is true and right.

And regardless of whether we are ASIAN or EUROPEAN or MIDDLE EASTERN,
Basic SEX education is necessary.
It is even better if everyone can speak it loud and shout.
There is nothing to be embarrass of.
One day soon, you are gonna have sex,
SAME SEX, DIFFERENT SEX,
that is not an issues too,
as long as you are 100% conscious of what you are doing.

PLAY BY THE LAW,
I will not say, is a MUST,
but it is BETTER.
UNDERAGE SEXUAL CONDUCT,
better not, that will not gain you any reliability/trust from your parents. =P

I do have my tradition too,
I may be open minded, but i'm not that WILD.
I don't take 1 night stand,
at least not at the moment,
I don't do prostitute,
SEX for $$, that is not something that I can accept.
Pleasure for $$, can la. eg, if you are very horny type of person,
that you need a lot of pleasure, GO AHEAD.
But, guys, beware of HIV.
it is not fair for your wife and family if you are a HIV carrier,
due to your irresistible and uncontrollable pleasure seeking.
I still uses chopstick (the right way)
I use have union dinner every year.
I still pray, when my parents asked me to (because i think i'm a free thinker lo)
It is theirs religious, and i RESPECT that.
I still address my parents as PA and MA and not by names,
(sometimes got la, for fun)
I still address my bro as bro instead of by name,
I address every senior with the proper title.
I address older people SIR, MDM, but not OI!

I practice ASIA-ISM too.
But i'm as open minded as other people, non Asia.
and most importantly,
I prefer SAFE SEX IF you ask me.
and i think that is very important,
you don't like ur life control you,
you take control of your life. :)
I plan your pregnancies,
but not having pregnancies while you know you still need to attend school
and sit for SPM, STPM in 4 months time,
where you are gonna carry a BIG and HUGE BELLY to school.

Cheers, just my 2 cents. ASIAN and SEX? WHY NOT?! ^^